微故事: 少睡的快樂女人 (東加豆) 你今天笑了嗎？ 凌晨四點，亞亭對著鏡子問。彷彿在問你、問我、問她自己。 亞亭有家庭、有孩子、有計劃，還有兩本書在等她寫。她每天只睡三個半小時，卻像一顆不用充電的燈泡，別人眼裡的她，從不疲倦，總是帶著光芒與熱情。 她有一項心得：閉上眼，吸氣四秒，呼氣八秒，像一隻在打坐的青蛙。三個半小時的睡眠，對她來說不…

Micro-story: International Riso a Gosto Festival 2026 (by Tonkabean) Inside a Central office elevator, the air feels like frozen meat—cold and stiff. Ah Chan stares at the flashing floor numbers. Surrounding him are dark grey suits. Every mouth seems calculated, curved at a precise, mechanical angle. In this city, facial expressions are assets; they must not be wasted. His phone vibrates. It’s an international email: Invitation to the International Riso a Gosto Festival 2026”—Record a 10 to 20-second laughing video to spread joy to the world. Why are there so many Laughter Yoga messages lately? Ah Chan mutters to himself. He can t even remember what he liked or what forms he filled out. Ah Chan scoffs in his mind. Ten seconds? In a city where hundreds of thousands of dollars are made every second…

微故事: 笑肌, 重啟中… (東加豆)Micro-story: Smile muscles: Rebooting... (by Tonkabean) 阿丁做了十一年客戶經理。他最大的技能不是談生意，而是（捲）。把一張臉捲成恰到好處的弧度，不冷不熱，不真不假。 捲了十一年，臉終於罷工了。 某天早上，他發現自己的嘴角卡在上揚的位置，放不下來。吃早餐是這樣，看新聞是這樣，連睡覺被老婆踢醒也是這樣。他像一個永遠在說（歡迎光臨）的蠟像。 客人給…

Micro-story: One Laugh is All It Takes to Relax (by Tonkabean) Uncle Ping saw a news headline today: (Three Seniors, One Fire Extinguisher, One Dead). The news reported that a 56-year-old man was smoking at a gas station. A staff member tried to stop him, leading to an argument that quickly turned physical. The 62-year-old staff member grabbed a fire extinguisher and sprayed it wildly. The 64-year-old manager stepped in to stop them, only to be struck with great force by the snatched extinguisher. He fell unconscious instantly. A witness remarked, He only hit him once... just once. Uncle Ping shook his head and sighed, One hit is all it takes to die. People these days have such short fuses. Suddenly, a wave of worry washed over him. He had just had a huge fight…

My Laughter Yoga Interview —— Johor Bahru Happy and Joyous ClubMy Laughter Yoga Interview —— Johor Bahru Happy and Joyous Club Yesterday, I did a very special interview. I was invited by the Johor Bahru Happy and Joyous Club in Malaysia for a live broadcast interview. I was very nervous about speaking English because I don t have much experience. But I am so grateful to the host, Mui Cheng. She followed my three prepared questions exactly, which made me feel very safe and comfortable during the whole process. I also want to thank Helen Siew and Jean Lee for their introduction and support, as well as Jhon and Meera for attending. Your presence made me feel that I was not facing this alone. If you cannot understand my English, that is totally fine! You can read the text record below. 1…

微故事+閱讀分享: 情緒成本(財務報表看不見，卻是最昂貴的一種隱藏成本)微故事+閱讀分享: 情緒成本 十力卜最近迷上了一本奇書，書中教導世人如何編製「情緒損益表」。他如獲至寶，決心將自己的人生從一盤爛帳，打理成資產負債表上漂亮的數字。 他首先開刀的，是那位愛躲在茶水間的同事，他總是把三分鐘閒聊撐成三小時連續劇，而且大多數…

微故事: 客廳裡的播種期 (東加豆)Micro-story: (by Tonkabean) 沙發兩端的距離，這是志明和秀英之間的一條界線，氣溫如南極。 志明總是把自己藏在報紙背後，像一隻自以為隱形的企鵝；秀英則沉迷於手機，彷彿在進行一場永無止境的滑屏探險。 然而最近，這個家悄悄出現了（氣候異常）。嚴格說來，異常的源頭不是客廳，而是秀英的體內。一切始於她誤交損友，那位損友…

(心理學大師佛洛姆跨時代不朽經典，一本學習如何去愛的聖經)

Micro-story: Ping-jai s Love Story (by Tonkabean) Micro-story: Ping-jai s Love Story (by Tonkabean) Ping-jai was heartbroken. His life went back to the state of two combs of bananas —empty-handed with nothing left. His girlfriend’s eyes had become cold, and she left him without looking back. Every day, Ping-jai kept replaying the romantic memories of meeting her in heavy rain. He locked himself up in his own sad thoughts. His good friend, Lei-ching, wanted to help. She brought him into a nightly Zoom Laughter Yoga class. Lei-ching was a Laughter Yoga Teacher. She knew that Ping-jai’s mind was stuck in the past, repeating his painful memories over and over again. In the class, everyone started doing Lion Laughter and stretching. Ping-jai’s body was stiff, and his…

微故事+閱讀分享: 香港電影史記微故事+閱讀分享: 香港電影史記 旺角舊書店的陽光，被百葉窗切成條條，攤在十力卜的書頁上。 紙張泛黃，聞起來像小時候的暑假。 旁邊兩個人倚著書架，聲音壓得低。 這也敢叫史記？ 人物亂塞一通。 炒冷飯。 沒深度。 翻版百度百科。 十力卜沒抬頭。他怕那些學者的專著，一頁有三個術語要查，比說明書還難啃。這本書不一樣…

微故事: Bili Bala (東加豆)Micro-story: Bili Bala (by Tonkabean)微故事: Bili Bala (東加豆) 那天，我被全世界拋棄了。 我叫阿恆，禍不單行。 上司在會議上搶了我的計劃書。 女友傳來一句： 我們冷靜一下。 阿媽打電話來： 今天和你大哥吃飯，他塞了一萬元在我的衫袋，家用比以前多了一千三百元。 我聽懂了。不需要解釋。五年來，我給母親的家用沒有變過，因為老闆給我的薪水，也沒有變過。 連…

微故事+電影分享: 大濛 (2025) 微故事+電影分享: 大濛 (2025) 我和十力卜都住在香港，一個潮濕悶熱的城市。 我問他為什麼要買票進場看《大濛》。他說：「因為我想看清楚『看不清楚』是怎麼一回事。」 這部電影講述白色恐怖年代，一個少女為了兄長的遺體，從嘉義獨自闖上台北。導演陳玉勳很懂節制——他不逼你哭，只是靜靜陪著阿月走過爛地、吃半塊餅乾。方郁婷倔強…

Micro-story: The Bounce of a Football (by Tonkabean)Micro-story: The Bounce of a Football (by Tonkabean) Long, long ago, there was a ball named Ah Ball. One day, it was rolling around on a green lawn. Later, a boy who was feeling down spotted it. He gently tapped Ah Ball with the tip of his toe, and then gave it a kick. Instantly, the boy felt much lighter. When Ah Ball was being tapped and kicked, it felt a very strange but pleasant sensation. Since it was strange and pleasant, Ah Ball treated it as a game, and gradually, it grew to love this game. However, Ah Ball’s friends mocked it, saying, You get kicked around all day, not just by one person, but by a whole crowd! Ah Ball even heard the animals outside the lawn…

微故事+閱讀分享: 學會呼吸：重新掌握天生本能微故事+閱讀分享: 學會呼吸：重新掌握天生本能 我在香港的清晨地鐵裡翻開那本講呼吸的書，像打開一個隨身攜帶的小型救生圈。我，十力卜，平日一緊張就像被生活卡住喉嚨，呼吸又急又淺。 我記得有人問過我，多少天不吃東西會死亡？ 又多少天不喝水會死亡？ 然而，呼吸呢？呼吸停止多久會死亡？ 三者…

微故事: 大笑癮 vs 愛情癮 (東加豆)Micro-story: Laughter Addiction vs. Love Addiction (by Tonkabean) 九十四歲的爺爺喝了一口茶，忽然看著阿丁說： 我常懷疑，究竟你嫲嫲是毒品，還是愛情本身就是毒品？ 爺爺說不知道，因為他一生人就只有嫲嫲這個女人，嫲嫲=女人、女人=嫲嫲，從此，他對覺得女人都是（生人勿近）。 阿丁聽得一愣。他想起自己每天練習的大笑瑜伽，只要兩三天沒有刻意大笑，身體就…

微故事+閱讀分享: 象與騎像人-幸福的假設微故事+閱讀分享: 象與騎像人-幸福的假設 十力卜近來隨身攜帶一本書，封面畫著一頭大象，同事以為他讀兒童繪本，殊不知那是本心理學著作。 他讀得認真，卻偶爾混盹。書中說人心分兩半，一半是衝動的大象，一半是理性的騎象人。十力卜覺得這比喻極好，好到他終於明白為何自己說了沒做、做了爭掙——那…

微故事+電影分享: Sirât (2025) 微故事+電影分享: Sirât (2025) 朋友都說十力卜中了電影的毒，而且毒癮不輕。自從看完《Sirât》，他逢人就拼命推薦，像個傳教士。阿強聽完後，只拋下一句： 收音機報個新聞就叫世界大戰？主角閉著眼睛踩地雷還死不了，這不是信念，是主角光環太亮了吧？你被導演洗腦了。 我沒有反駁，因為阿強說： 劇情硬拗、留白太多、嬉皮士的情緒說來就來…

微故事: 人際探測眼鏡（東加豆）微故事: 人際探測眼鏡（東加豆） （阿丁）是大笑瑜伽導師。他的班上只有六點五個人，為什麼是六點五？因為一個女學員每次對鏡頭都是一半臉、半邊肩膀、一隻手，而且她只會參與一半課堂。阿丁告訴自己，一種麵包有一百個不同的人喜歡吃，一句 Ho Ho Ha Ha 也有不同的聲調吧！總之大家一起 Ho Ho Ha Ha 就開心了。 阿丁試過派…

微故事+閱讀分享: 認知覺醒：開啟自我改變原動力 微故事+閱讀分享: 認知覺醒：開啟自我改變原動力 灣仔的午後，陽光穿過積雲，在茶餐廳油膩的地上投下幾塊光斑，像似生活裡偶爾閃出卻抓不住的疤痕。十力卜坐在角落，手邊是那本《認知覺醒》，封面冷靜的色調跟桌上的深啡色的熱奶茶形成對比，未開始看，已經有一種理智與慾望的衝突。 他翻開…

微故事: 妖怪的自助餐（東加豆） Micro-story: The Monster s Buffet (by Tonkabean) 微故事: 妖怪的自助餐（東加豆） 城市裡有一隻（壓力妖怪），不喝血不吃肉，專門吸食（假笑）維生。 它像個挑剔的美食家，盤旋在空曠的大自然，或者大花園，因為（愛大笑）的人最喜歡到這裡，水泥森林的城市，大笑都遭人投訴。 不管是哪種笑容，在壓力妖怪眼中都是米其林三星，滋潤又甜美。它知道，人類越是在…