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问题不在于个人是否足够善良,而在于成本始终单向流动。

问题不在于个人是否足够善良,而在于成本始终单向流动。

在许多关系与制度中,实际运行的并非对等交换,而是一种隐性的单向结算机制。该机制通过要求个体不断付出情绪调节、合理化解释、无条件忍耐,以及占据道德高地的自我约束,来维持系统的稳定,却不提供相应回报。这些本应被结算的回报包括:基本尊重、现实安全、清晰边界、对等解释权,以及在冲突中免于惩罚或羞辱的权利。这些回报缺席时,所谓的“责任”实质上只是一种被制度化的单向消耗。

在许多关系与制度中,实际运行的并非对等交换,而是一种隐性的单向结算机制。该机制通过要求个体不断付出情绪调节、合理化解释、无条件忍耐,以及占据道德高地的自我约束,来维持系统的稳定,却不提供相应回报。这些本应被结算的回报包括:基本尊重、现实安全、清晰边界、对等解释权,以及在冲突中免于惩罚或羞辱的权利。这些回报缺席时,所谓的“责任”实质上只是一种被制度化的单向消耗。

When Most People Mature: An Intellectual Blueprint for a Post-Patriarchal Civilization - Part II

A post-patriarchal blueprint: how trauma repair and adult maturity can replace fear-based governance, reshaping family, education, work, and politics toward empathy, dignity, and resilience.

When Most People Mature: An Intellectual Blueprint for a Post-Patriarchal Civilization - Part I

A post-patriarchal blueprint: how trauma repair and adult maturity can replace fear-based governance, reshaping family, education, work, and politics toward empathy, dignity, and resilience.

Transnational Repression as an Intrusion into Democratic Sovereignty and Institutions - Part II

This article shows that transnational repression is a subtle but sustained intrusion into democratic sovereignty, law, and civic life—eroding norms from within and demanding systemic countermeasures.

Transnational Repression as an Intrusion into Democratic Sovereignty and Institutions - Part I

This article shows that transnational repression is a subtle but sustained intrusion into democratic sovereignty, law, and civic life—eroding norms from within and demanding systemic countermeasures.

Transnational Repression: References

bramowitz, M. J., Schenkkan, N. (2021). Out of sight, not out of reach: The global scale and scope of transnational repression. Freedom House.freedomhouse.org/rep... Adamson, F. B., Tsourapas, G. (2020). The migration–security nexus: A framework for analysis. International Studies Review, 22(4), 853–877.doi.org/10.1093/isr/... Aljizawi, B., Marczak, B., Scott-Railton, J., et al. (2024). No escape: The weaponization of gender for the purposes of digital transnational repression. Citizen Lab, Munk School of Global Affairs Public Policy, University of Toronto.citizenlab.ca/2024/0... Amnesty International. (2018). China: Where are they? Time for answers about mass detentions in the Xinjiang Uyghur Autonomous Region.www.amnesty.org Amnesty International. (2021). Like we were enemies in a war: China’s mass internment, torture, and persecution of Muslims in Xinjiang.www.amnesty.org Brady, A.-M…

Transnational Repression: Comparative Case Analysis and Mechanism Stacking Across Contexts—Part III

Part III compares selected cases to illustrate how transnational repression mechanisms function in practice across contexts, highlighting common patterns of deniability, adaptation, and civic impact.

Transnational Repression: Gendered Repression and the Weaponization of Shame — Part II

Part II examines how transnational repression relies on digital proxies and diaspora co-optation, and how shame and sexualized attacks are deployed to silence women and LGBTQ+ individuals.

Transnational Repression: It Is Not Mysterious, But It Is Evil — Part I

This is the first installment of a three-part essay on transnational repression. Part I introduces key concepts, reviews research, and explains how repression works without violence or visibility.

Arrested Adulthood: How Trauma, Patriarchy, and High-Pressure Societies Keep Adults from Growing Up

Explores how trauma, patriarchal families and high-pressure systems arrest psychological development, leaving many adults stuck in childlike modes and shaping a trauma-organized society.

双重绑定机制解析

假设外界同时把一个人贴上“攻击性强”和“弱势不会反抗”这两种矛盾标签,其在面对骚扰时会进入一个必输局面,无论做什么都被当成理由继续骚扰。

double bind(双重束缚)

戏剧张力(dramatic tension)

群体凝视(collective gaze)

社会羞辱仪式(ritualized humiliation)

victim-blaming (责受害者)

sympathy removal(剥夺同情)

gaslighting by romance narrative(通过浪漫叙事进行煤气灯操控)

double bind(双重束缚)

戏剧张力(dramatic tension)

群体凝视(collective gaze)

社会羞辱仪式(ritualized humiliation)

victim-blaming (责受害者)

sympathy removal(剥夺同情)

gaslighting by romance narrative(通过浪漫叙事进行煤气灯操控)

冷(?)知识:history 并不是由 “his(他的)+ story(故事)” 组成,它来自希腊语 historia,意为“探究”。

冷(?)知识:history 并不是由 “his(他的)+ story(故事)” 组成,它来自希腊语 historia,意为“探究”。

illusory reward(虚幻奖赏)

phantom authority(幻影权威)

covert control(隐性控制)

gaslighting 叙事制造

limbic hijacking(边缘系统劫持)

illusory reward(虚幻奖赏)

phantom authority(幻影权威)

covert control(隐性控制)

gaslighting 叙事制造

limbic hijacking(边缘系统劫持)

Judith Herman(创伤叙事控制)

Lifton(思维控制机制)

Bourdieu(象征暴力)

Foucault(主体被话语塑形)

Judith Herman(创伤叙事控制)

Lifton(思维控制机制)

Bourdieu(象征暴力)

Foucault(主体被话语塑形)

一个权力位置够高的人,为何要参与一个针对弱势个体的虚假“喜欢”叙事?

在正常、健康、稳定的系统里 没人会这么做。也就是说,一个真正成熟、道德健全、有权力自信的领导者,不会利用“暧昧、暗示、神秘喜欢”去操控环境中的弱势成员。所以:

有一个从未出现的大人物“喜欢你”

在心理学、社会控制与权力叙事分析中,这类“有人喜欢你但从未出现”“一个神秘大佬关注你”的叙事,是典型的操控性叙事结构。更关键的是,这种叙事并不是为了让你“高兴”,而是为了制造 混乱、分裂自我感、降低防御、增加他人参与感 的统治性效果。

一个跑题:真实特别与操控机制对比

如果一个人真正觉得你“特别”,你会感到被爱、被看见、被放松,而不是被要求、被消耗、被隐忍。这是判断真心 vs 操控的最精准标准之一。

为什么操控需要被害人觉得自己是"特别"的?

为了改变被害人的自我定位,使其进入更容易被掌控的位置。用老话讲,更容易被“鬼迷心窍”。